* Children need to be taught to respect and obey parental, and
other authority figures at an early age. They also need to
understand the "equality" of all human beings, does not make all
human beings equal in authority.
* A family with a christian mom and dad who are married to each
other, is the best place for children to be raised. Anything less,
is a negative factor to some degree in the development of children.
* Parents and family members who over eat, smoke, abuse alcohol,
and other chemical crutches (including prescription drugs), are
poor role models for children. As children grow in such an
environment, they will begin to assume the habits of those they
reside with.
* Discipline, should be consistent and effective when offenses
occur. Punishment should be structured to fit the crime, and
corporal punishment should be used for serious offenses such as
lying, disrespect, and when children harm others.
* Children should attend church with their parents, and they should
be educated in a christian school whenever possible. Children need
God in the home, church, and school. If God is only honored one day
per week, He will not have much influence over the family unit.
* Parents, and other family members, should respect the children
enough to speak properly, and not use foul or abusive language
under any circumstances. They should praise the children who do
well, and speak words of kindness and love at every opportunity.
* Children should be protected from impure media, and from those
who cannot respect the integrity of the family unit and God
Himself. Anyone who disregards the morality and safety of our
youth, should not have access to kids at any time.
* Parents should pray for the grace to help live a moral and
wholesome lifestyle, and be an example of righteousness for all to
see. God should not have just a place in the family, he should have
FIRST PLACE in it
* Fathers, need to assume the second in-command position, and
mothers should assume the third in-command place as directed by the
holy scriptures. Until our marriages begin to be established in
accordance with God's law, divorce will become a greater factor in
the destruction of the family unit.
NONE of these concepts are new ideas, or alien to the biblical
record. Until they begin to be practiced and observed on a large
scale basis, decline will continue throughout our world. We have no
EXCUSE, I pity the children of those who become parents, and have
been raised in our humanist and God-less society...
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