* ALMOST HOMOSEXUAL? *

If you are a man with a sexual desire for other men, your are a homosexual. If you are a man who likes to be effeminate, and encourage other men to desire you sexually, you are a homosexual. Women with the same type of desires for other women, would also be considered as homosexuals. I just mention these points as an introduction to a "alternative" form of homosexuality. Let me explain:

There are many married couples who have reversed their roles, and live as if they were of the opposite sex. Many men are more effeminate, than their wives. They allow the woman to run the home and family, and some of them even obey their wives as if God had put her in charge. Many wives act as if they are men, and dare anyone to tamper with their kingdom. If you doubt this, ask any child who is the ruler of their home!

The point is, both man and wife in such a situation have traded roles. They may look like a man and a woman, but they do not act like a man and woman. The children of these households are being raised in a home with female kings and male queens as parents. Is it no wonder, many our young people have an very ill-defined sexual identity?

I believe such a relationship is as "queer" as two members of the same sex living together as lovers. A man who acts as a woman, is guilty of being effeminate. It is a form of homosexuality, even if he never gets involved sexually with a man. The same goes for a woman who lives the role of a male in her home. At least the gay people know they are homosexuals, even if they keep their sexual desires secret.

In a way, this is WORSE. A married couple who has traded roles in the home, is truly a deception of the greatest magnitude. This is one of the reasons so many people abstain from ever getting married, as they see the deceit and lies played out everyday right before their eyes. What kind of a real woman, wants an effeminate man, and what kind of true man wants a woman who believes she is a king?

We really have blown it, when it comes to family relationships. Many of those who have a fit about same sex marriages, are just as guilty of perversion in a different way. Eve ate the apple, but Adam followed the leadership of his wife and lost the whole ball of wax!

You know who you are out there, so admit your sick situation and do something about it, before anymore damage is done. You will never be satisfied living a role you were not created for, and your children will suffer greatly for your mistakes. You know what is right, and God has given you a nature and instinct to match your true sexual identity. Don't come out of the closet, get into it and stay there until you are ready to live life as the person God created you to be...